The Relationship Tune-Up for Married Couples program is my signature program that was carefully developed for couples who want to reconnect and create your ideal marriage.
This program will not just teach you relationship skills that benefit your marriage. These skills will also benefit your relationship with your kids, your coworkers, your family and friends, and your community. These skills can be used across different contexts and relationships.
This program will teach you how to increase your friendships and fondness, learn effective communication skills, learn how to handle conflict healthily and effectively, and start to think and act like a solid team to deal with life and its stressors.
The quality of your marriage determines the quality of your life. If you have a connected and secure marriage, you are better to handle what life throws at you.
But wanting it is not enough to collapse the timeline and create your ideal marriage.
You are married and are committed to your marriage.
You are an open-minded and determined thinker looking for ways to learn and grow.
You are willing to acknowledge your part of the patterns, learn new tools, and change your part of the pattern.
You are willing to consistently do the work in the program.
You are considering divorce.
You are close-minded and scared of change.
There is currently infidelity, substance abuse, or domestic violence in your marriage.
You think your spouse is the problem and they are the only ones who need to change.
It would be hard to you to carve out time to implement what you are learning.
I know you…you long for a marriage that is more, you’ve had that desire for quite some time.
So be real with me for a minute.
Imagine yourself 10 years from now…Will you still be in your marriage feeling unheard, neglected, and like you are facing life’s hard days all by yourself?
OR
Are you ready to make the leap and enjoy your ideal marriage that can handle any challenge as a team.
Put your learning hat on and schedule time to view the content.
Take the Couples Assessment that identifies the strengths and weaknesses of your marriage so we know the foundation we will build on and what areas need to be strengthened.
Learn my proprietary reconnection roadmap to increase friendship, communication skills, and healthy conflict skills to increase your connection, security, and intimacy.
Define your ideal marriage and write your marriage mission statement.
Learn how to voice a complaint where your spouse can hear it and respond to it in a positive matter.
Learn what to say and not to say.
Learn how to debrief and repair after a negative interaction with the goal of understanding one another
Learn behaviors that initiate and maintain connection
Learn specifically what your spouse needs to feel loved and valued and teach your spouse what you need to feel loved and valued.
Identify and overcome limiting beliefs and change your mindset to “We”
Learn to self-regulate and regulate your partner when feeling overwhelmed by emotions.
Learn to identify the damaging patterns in your relationship and how to change them to stop the damage
What if I don’t have the time?
Everyone is busy. All you need to do to be successful in this program is dedicate 5 hours per week.
What if I am scared to invest?
I get it. It’s scary to take the risk to put yourself out there and have uncomfortable discussions to rebuild. This is why I provide a full return on investment guarantee when you work with me.
The Relationship Tune-Up for Married Couples Program is a 3 month premier program of it’s kind including:
● Weekly Live Calls with laser coaching to discuss concepts, tools, and areas where you are struggling.
● 12 month access to the digital course training videos with step by step guidance.
● Amazing support from your coach and other couples on the same exact journey as you.
What’s In it For Me?
● The Reconnection Roadmap, Stacie’s proven and effective process to get your ideal marriage.
● Learn how to initiate conflict in an effective way and how to respond in an effective way.
● Get clarity on the damaging patterns in your relationship, understand your part, and how to change it.
● Learn how to ask for what you need, listen to understand, and be a healthy spouse.
● Customized feedback for your marriage.
● Overcome limiting beliefs, mindset blocks, and family of origin lessons.
● Get support and learn from other couples on the same journey in the private VIP Facebook group.
● Access to relationship tools that can be applied in all relationships
Online Assessment: You and your partner will have access to a comprehensive assessment that looks at your relationship from many unique angles. This online assessment is so thorough that it gets right to the heart of the issues. It also does a wonderful job of clearly outlining your strengths so that you and your partner will now know what you’ve done right in order to keep your relationship on track.
1:1 Coaching Session with Stacie as she goes over your online assessment results with the two of you and identifies areas of strengths and areas to focus on for improvement in the relationship. We will work together to set goals for your specific marriage.
“Working with someone whose only concern was helping us become more aware of ourselves, each other, and how we both impact the success of our marriage was helpful. We have both learned a lot about ourselves, each other and our marriage. We have never been happier!”
“What I value most from working with Stacie is the ability to identify when I am ‘flooding’, the person I become when I’m in that mental state, and what I need to do to not act in that manner. The ability to know when I’m in the ‘details’ and not talking about how I’m feeling and what I need changed, because ‘details’ only ever creates further arguments. Also, the ability to see these traits in my partner to help guide us to more productive conversations.”
“This has been a catalyst for change in our marriage, our parenting, and our friendship. Just like a tree, a marriage is either growing or dying and we are back to growing. We still have lots of fertilizing and work ahead of us, but we are back on track.”
Relationship Tune-Up for Married Couples ™