I’m a LMFT and LPC who helps disconnected married couples reconnect, strengthen their marriage, and become a stronger team so they can face life stresses together. I teach couples how to strengthen their friendship, communicate effectively, handle conflict healthily, change their damaging patterns, and think and act like a strong team.
I always loved being a couples therapist. The quality of our marriage impacts the quality of our life. I also love teaching relationship skills that help couples in every relationship and all aspects of their lives. I began looking for ways to reach more couples outside of the state I am licensed in as a MFT. This is why I added coaching to my services so I could reach more couples and impact more marriages.
There were two times in my 17 year marriage where I felt disconnected and had to intentionally work to reconnect and repair my marriage. Now don't get me wrong there have been seasons of connecting and disconnecting that all marriages experience. I'm talking about resentment, unresolved issues, and hurts. Negative thinking about my husband and my marriage. Feeling lonely and like my husband was not on my side. Feeling unheard and taken advantage of which caused a negative attitude.
I tried to talk to my husband but did not have the skills to do it effectively. Sometimes it felt like trying to talk about it made it worse and then the stuffing of feelings and avoiding hard conversations started which led to distance and resentment. And then I decided to expand my skills as a therapy and it changed everything in my professional and personal life. I was trained in the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy which are two of the most effective approaches to marriage therapy.
I learned so many relationship skills and started applying them in my marriage. This changed my marriage and we were able to start talking about hard things in an effective way and work to reconnect. We now approach life and problems as a strong team. When their is an issue, we have the tools to deal with it. I want this for your too!
I took my professional trainings, my knowledge and experience working as a couples therapist for 27 years, and combined it with my personal experience to create my signature program for couples.
Solutions to reconnect and maintain the connection in your marriage.
Solutions to address issues as they occur in an effective way that maintains connection
Solutions to communicate effectively and make your marriage a touchstone of safety and security.
I want you to have a Kick-Ass Marriage where you both feel known, loved, and valued and can approach anything life throws at you as a strong and united team.
Stacie is an ambitious innovator who has always taken pride in re-working the systems. As a therapist her motto was always “get off the couch” meaning it doesn’t take years on end to heal with the proper treatment. She refined the most important steps when it comes to marriage transformation and has taught many couples her proprietary 3 step success coaching method to help clients receive remarkable results in very few sessions.
When you don’t find Stacie with her family, friends, or working with clients, you can find her volunteering her time to healing others. She is a wife, mother, animal rescuer, friend, and conscious leader in her community. Connecting to others is a primary focus of her life.
Every industry has its champs and chumps and to be frank there is a lot of money hungry chumps in the coaching industry. Stacie is the first one to tell you if she can help you or not and she stands firm in her promises. She will also help you craft your god given gifts in a way that makes your marriage stronger. She cares deeply about you and the people you are meant to serve.
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